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Please stop apologising.

Sat, 12 Dec 2015 11:21:38 -0500

Stop apologising for things you didn’t do wrong. Stop apologising for who you are.
Stop apologising when asking for something you need. Stop apologising for other people. Stop apologising when someone else is in the wrong. If someone bumps into YOU in the shopping centre, don’t apologise…smile and tell them it’s okay if they say sorry. Don’t apologise for asking a favour of someone, you are allowed to receive. You are worthy of help and support. Just express your gratitude and return the favour when the time comes but please don’t apologise for asking.
Do not apologise for taking care of yourself and putting yourself first sometimes. Do not apologise when asking someone to fix up their bill or pay whatever debts they owe.
Do. not. apologise. for. eating.
If you want seconds, go for seconds without saying “I’m so sorry, I’m so hungry today I don’t know what’s wrong with me.” Do not apologise when you need to take a break to stop and rest at anytime. Do not apologise for being sick. Do not apologise for needing to go to the toilet. Do not apologise for needing sleep. Basic human needs do not require an apology.
Do not apologise for being “too loud” or “too quiet”. Do not apologise for speaking up. Do not apologise for having a voice or an opinion. Do not apologise for your successes or good fortune. You don’t have to be arrogant when it comes to your achievements but you certainly do not have to apologise for them! Be proud of yourself!
Do not apologise for your body or for what you’re wearing. Do not apologise for your career choice or your hobbies or how you choose to spend your time. Do not apologise for laughing too loud, do not apologise for crying too much.
Stop apologising for being busy or not having the time for someone or something. You are not at everyone’s beck and call, your time is precious.
Most importantly, please please please stop apologising for how you feel! Your feelings are valid and important and they deserve to be heard. As they say “The sun doesn’t apologise for being the sun. The rain doesn’t say sorry for falling. Feelings just are.”
Apologise when you make a mistake or when you hurt someone but never apologise for being who you are and never apologise to someone who should be apologising to you.

You deserve to take up space, you deserve to be heard, you deserve to be true.

"People seem to think embracing life means to jump off cliffs and kiss strangers. Maybe it’s just..."

Fri, 04 Dec 2015 01:17:27 -0500

“People seem to think embracing life means to jump off cliffs and kiss strangers. Maybe it’s just slowly learning to love yourself.”

- (via becomingroux)

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President Snow to Katniss

Mon, 27 Apr 2015 00:35:52 -0400

Snow: Got a long list of ex-victors
Snow: They'll tell you I'm insane
Snow: 'Cause you know I hate the players
Snow: BUT I LOVE THE GAMES

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reallyquiet: I want to be someone’s favorite person to talk to.

Mon, 27 Apr 2015 00:21:41 -0400

reallyquiet:

I want to be someone’s favorite person to talk to.

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a feelings dump: everything is okay but i feel like i’m suffocating like my lungs...

Fri, 09 Jan 2015 00:24:58 -0500

a feelings dump:

everything is okay

but

i feel like i’m suffocating

like my lungs are

overinflated

like i’m holding in too many breaths

too many words

too many thoughts

too much

or maybe my lungs are deflated

like i’m breathing out more than i breathe in

giving away more than i get

i am never full

never filled

never fulfilled

unfulfilled

unwanted

unneeded

unnoticed

unnecessary

until when will i be sad

and when will i

understand whys

like why am i

what i am

and why

am i not enough

why

don’t they care enough

why

is everything not enough

why

do i feel like i’m fighting a one-sided battle

all the time

why

do all these people in the world

not make me any less lonely

and

why

is it that everything is okay

but

i’m still not okay

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thaibrator: mariah carey and ariana grande getting in a fight

Sun, 04 Jan 2015 14:55:00 -0500

thaibrator:

mariah carey and ariana grande getting in a fight

impalaorbust: liwengwen: whatcoloristheworld: good luck to everyone who has school soon but your...

Sun, 04 Jan 2015 02:58:37 -0500

impalaorbust:

liwengwen:

whatcoloristheworld:

good luck to everyone who has school soon but your sleeping schedule is wrecked beyond repair

good luck to everyone who has school soon and hasn’t even started their homework assigned to them during break

Good luck to everyone who has school

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Wintertime

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Wintertime

secondbestpolicy: 25 Days of Christmas [Fandom...

Mon, 15 Dec 2014 13:55:46 -0500

secondbestpolicy:

25 Days of Christmas [Fandom Edition]//December 1^st: Harry Potter

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